Breaking Free: How to Release Limiting Beliefs and Reclaim Your Power
- Delyse Armstrong
- Aug 6
- 2 min read

"I’m not good enough."
"Who am I to want more?"
"I need to make everyone else happy first."
Sound familiar?
These are the silent whispers of limiting beliefs—the stories we’ve been taught, inherited, or picked up along the way that keep us stuck in patterns that no longer serve us.
At Choosing You Without the Guilt (CYWTG), we believe that releasing these beliefs is one of the most powerful acts of self-liberation.
Because when you change your beliefs, you change your life.
What Are Limiting Beliefs? Limiting beliefs are the thoughts or narratives that tell you what you "can’t" or "shouldn’t" do. They shape your choices, your confidence, and how you show up in the world.
They often sound like:
"I don’t deserve success."
"It’s too late for me."
"I’m not as capable as others."
These beliefs are sneaky. They live in your subconscious and operate on autopilot—until you bring them into the light.
How Limiting Beliefs Hold You Back
Limiting beliefs:
Sabotage your confidence
Keep you stuck in people-pleasing cycles
Stop you from going after what you truly want
Create a constant loop of guilt and self-doubt
But here’s the truth: You are not your beliefs. You have the power to rewrite them.
3 Steps to Release Limiting Beliefs
1. Identify the Story
Ask yourself:
What belief is holding me back right now?
Where did this story come from? (Family, society, past experiences?)
Awareness is the first step to shifting.
2. Challenge Its Truth
Question it:
Is this belief a fact or a fear?
Has it been proven wrong in other areas of my life?
Your mind loves evidence. Give it new ones.
3. Rewrite with Empowerment
Flip the script:
Old belief: "I need to be perfect to be loved."
New belief: "I am worthy of love exactly as I am."
Repeat this daily. Let it become your new truth.
You Are Allowed to Outgrow Old Stories
Here’s something you need to hear:
Just because you’ve believed something for a long time doesn’t make it true.
You are allowed to evolve.
You are allowed to want more.
You are allowed to choose yourself, without the guilt.
Every time you release a limiting belief, you create space for possibility.
For freedom.
For the life you actually desire.
Final Words
At CYWTG, we are here to walk with you as you shed the layers that no longer fit.
You were never meant to stay small.
You are meant to expand.
To thrive.
To lead yourself first.
It starts with a choice:
Choose to believe in you.
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